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How to Become the new you

Updated: Aug 28, 2021

You can become the new you at any time it does not to be on your birthday or new year. Everyone has their reasons to become the new you may be it's due to their past, or want to change their lifestyle they are living or you just want to show the world they are ready to handle responsibilities like the adult. Becoming the new you indicates that you are growing to be a new self, a better version of yourself, or a sarcastic villain, it all relies on you. At the end of the day, it's your choice. But becoming the new you imply you have to go through the transformations of your character.

Let go of the past:

Why do you want to become the new you? That's the first question you want to ask yourself. You cannot alter the past but you can just let it go. When you wished to change for the better, you need to abandon your past to move forward. Your past is a burden that weighs you down and keeps you behind from becoming the new you and letting go of the past is a difficulty you need to endure as most of them dwell on. Overcoming this hardship relies on your willpower, it proves how hard you are trying to change your life for the better. A constant determination and willpower will help you get through the obstacle. Face the past and fight your way through it for the past to fade away in your life. Letting go of your past doesn't mean you have to forget your beautiful memories, cherish the beautiful memories you have because those are the memories that help you keep moving but let go of the rest to find your new self.

Holding on is believing that there’s a past; letting go is knowing that there’s a future. -Daphne Rose Kingma
Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go. –Herman Hesse

Change your routine:

Running through the exact lifestyle, again and again, make you unhealthy in every way, at one point you become miserable and stressed out. It's best to change your routine for becoming a better version of yourself. Waking up early, going to bed early, followed by a good amount of sleep, eating healthy, watching good movies, and staying fit. Life is all about the way you live for yourself so begin with changing your routine to see changes in yourself. If you are feeling stressed out and worrying about something, just sleep on it. Thinking or worrying takes away today's peace and don't forget to take a walk, breathe and smile.

You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine–John C. Maxwell

Find a new hobby:

Find a new hobby to distract yourself from the world. You may have hobbies but finding one more works out and it's worth your time and hobbies are good stress busters. Hobbies are an investment for becoming the new you, whether it's a handicraft or learning a new language, there are always new things to explore and learn. Who knows maybe the hobbies your exploring can provoke your curiosity and turn your hobby into a career or passion. Exploring new hobbies takes time but benefit you in many ways in stimulating your creativity and looks good on your resume too. Hobbies are never a waste of your time, it can get rid of your stress and calms you down especially hobbies like gardening can relieve your stress. Who doesn't like to have fun, hobbies are fun no matter what is your age and also you can boast your hobby to other people. Don't forget to have fun so choose a hobby that brings out the new you in every way.

A hobby a day keeps the doldrums away. - Phyllis McGinley

Take a vacation:

Vacation is always great. Take a vacation when you are feeling down. Self-care is ever significant while taking care of yourself. Vacation is a great way to give some space for yourself to find a way to acknowledge yourself to accomplish great things. You will often find yourself on vacation about the things you love, hate, a goal to move forward. Vacation clears your mind which is filled with complications. All you have to do is take some time for yourself to find your way back to strength in you. You do not need to take a long voyage for a vacation, a vacation is a place where you love to spend time clearing your mind. It can be anywhere, near or far doesn't matter. It's all about some time alone to find a new you with people you love or a place you always wanted to go. A long ride or a long walk works as a vacation too. And don't forget to capture your memories on the vacation.

You don't need magic to disappear all you need is the destination.

Follow your passion:

In the process of becoming the new you, it is necessary to pursue your heart. It all went wrong with your old self because you failed to follow your heart. A mind is important when making decisions but at the same time finding a balance between mind and heart is important too. So this time while making a decision consult both heart and mind. So it's time to follow your passion, you don't need to leave your job unless your passion is to find a favorite new job. Follow your heart and passion to become a happy person. Do you know when a person is healthy? We are healthy when we are happy. That's why people tend to laugh to lengthen their lifetime on earth. All starts with joy and everyone deserves happiness. So you need to find your way to happiness by starting with your passion. Even if you don't have time, make sure to create a time for your passion. If we don't celebrate ourselves don't expect someone to celebrate you. All start from us. It's never too late to follow your passion.

Follow your passion. It will lead you to your purpose. - Oprah

Don't regret:

As a new person, you may take the time to adapt to being the new you, whether it's your new job or a new place, or your new routine. You may wish to go back to your old life at some point but try to give yourself a possibility to work out new aspects in your life, you may not only get used to them but you will thank yourself for the things you did for yourself in the future. When you begin to see everything with your heart you may find your new life wonderful and you realize you are right about becoming the new self. Don't ever regret becoming the new you.

Leave the past to where it. Don't look back you know you shouldn't.

When you become the new you, cherish yourself, because you are as valuable as every other person on the planet. Take some time before making any decisions, lessons learned from the past will always assist so don't ignore them and don't make the same mistake twice. Never stop loving yourself and never forget what you're capable of.

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